The Dichotomous Essence of Compromise

Compromise can be so simple, yet so complicated.

Above all, it holds so much power when used appropriately and at the right time. Its a subject that's been on my mind a lot lately. The concept is a dichotomy. It can be a good, yet a bad thing; necessary, yet there is a pertinence to avoid it.

Compromise can bring two people closer in relationship. Both having their own needs, yet giving up some of those to meet the other person's needs. A give and take relationship that is one of the essential building blocks of all relationships. When used by both people it can be a strong bond. When forgotten by one or both parties, the absence can create conflict and pain.

There is also compromise in the sense of giving in. I think this is seen when you give up what is necessary or virtuous to appease someone or gain something that has a more short term effect. In relationships, it can be your values to avoid offending someone or giving up the needs that are necessary to keep a balanced relationship. Either way there is a detrimant caused by this action.

Like I said, this is a concept that has been on my mind a lot this week and at play in my life. Remember that compromise is so important to healthy relationships. Its necessary from both ends. Its important to balance the give and take. In psychology, we thrive to help couples and family establish complimentary relationships. Where one is lacking, the other is soaring. That's how compromise is: where one has given the other fills that void and vice versa.

Compromise can be so simple, yet so complicated.